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The Freedom of Forgiveness

December 5, 2013 by emcoop 6 Comments

Forgiveness.

Lately I’ve seen and heard the topic everywhere: On Christian radio, in Hallmark movies, in songs. You will even find it as a frequent topic in my novels.

So why is there so much written and spoken about the topic? Perhaps because it is a universal issue that we all face: Forgiving those who have hurt us.

Last night I had the honor of doing the devotional for a Ladies’ Christmas Tea held through our church. When I was asked to give the fifteen minute talk to the group, I accepted, but had no clue what I was to speak about. I asked the hostess to pray for me to have wisdom and discernment about what topic I should choose. And I prayed. I never take these opportunities lightly.

When I awoke the next morning, it was as clear as the rising sun. I was to speak about the chapter that I had written in a book called Unshackled and Free, True Stories of Forgiveness. The book was compiled by CJ and Shelley Hitz and, although I was happy that my chapter was chosen, I declined to promote it at the time because I feared it would cause pain to someone.

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But I knew now was the right time to share my story. While my narrative is perhaps not nearly as dramatic as those who have suffered serious abuse, I could tell by the response in the dozen or more ladies gathered last evening that it was a timely topic. We all wrestle with forgiveness.

And as the holidays approach and family gatherings are more frequent, perhaps this is something that will touch your heart and help you.

Last night I quoted one of my heroines, Corrie Ten Boom. She was put in a concentration camp in the Netherlands during WWII with her sister, who eventually succumbed to the horrific conditions in the camp. Corrie survived and afterwards, the Lord led her to speak before groups all over the world. Her testimony of forgiveness, even to one of the guards at the camp, is the most inspiring I have ever heard.

When speaking about her decision to forgive, she once emphasized that it is not necessary to FEEL like forgiving, but it is necessary to be OBEDIENT to forgive:

“Forgiveness is an act of the will, and the will can function regardless of the temperature of the heart.” — Corrie Ten Boom

Jesus said, “If you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” Matthew 6:14-15 NIV

The Apostle Paul said, “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Ephesians 4:31-32 NIV

Is there someone you need to forgive today? It’s only a decision away.

 

Unshackled and Free is available at Amazon. Click here.

Featured image courtesy of talented photographer Thomas Deitner

Remembering Bethany

October 20, 2013 by emcoop 11 Comments

Today, October 20th, 2013, marks the tenth anniversary of our daughter Bethany’s Homecoming. Not a college homecoming event, mind you. It was her final homecoming to heaven.

The discovery of her brain tumor shortly after her 23rd Birthday was a shock, to say the least. Months of treatment followed. Our lives were flung into a pit of despair, exhaustion, and grief, while our desperate faith clung to the hem of God’s garment as He said to us, “Trust me.” And we did. And we still do.

God never promised that our lives would be without sorrow or challenges that would feel much worse than a blow with a two by four. But He did promise He would never leave us or forsake us.

While many of my friends and even distant relatives only know Bethany as “my daughter who died from a brain tumor,” she was so much more.

 

Bethany and I, a year before we knew about the cancer
Bethany and I, a year before we knew about the cancer

She was the short one in the family, nearly a foot shorter than her older brother, Ben. But Bethany had what I always described as a “tall personality,” with more spunk and determination than all the rest of us put together.

When she was only two-years-old, her Daddy taught her the Shel Silverstein poem about a Polar Bear in the Frigidaire. The words still play in my mind as I can envision her rise to her full, midget-like stature and say the entire poem to amazed listeners. She delighted in the performance!

When her little brother, Nate, was born, she wanted to mother him to the point where I had to intervene. “If you do everything for him, he’ll never learn to do it himself,” I would gently say to her. She backed off—just a bit! The two of them were close their entire lives.

She admired her older brother, Ben, so much. In her last months she told him that she’d be watching him from heaven as he flew his military jet. I overheard her say to him, “I’ll tell everyone up there, ‘Look, there’s my brother!’” She was so proud of his service to our country.

Rather than just remember her as a cancer patient, I love to remember Bethany’s delightful legacy. She was a defender of the weak, a friend to the friendless, a comforter to the elderly in nursing homes, a brilliant student, a hilarious jokester, a believer in Jesus Christ, and as genuine a person as they come.

Daisies: Bethany's Favorite Flower
Daisies: Bethany’s Favorite Flower

Her writing awed and amazed me. She dreamed of being a writer but those dreams were not in God’s plans.

I never dreamed that I would carry on her hoped-for legacy by becoming an author. I wish that she could have become the writer instead. But our ways are not God’s ways.

Bethany’s favorite Bible verse was Jeremiah 29:11: “’For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’”

Reading that verse on her tombstone, her brother Ben said, “In a way, God did take care of her future by bringing her home to Him in heaven.”

Indeed. And someday we can all be united again in the heavenly realm. That is our ultimate hope—our ultimate joy as we remember my daughter, Bethany, on this day of her Homecoming Anniversary.

 

 

Congratulations! It’s a — Book Cover! Part 3

September 26, 2013 by emcoop 2 Comments

While creativity is an author’s forte, sometimes the more practical side of our brain can be lacking, especially when it comes to the business aspect of writing. But reality eventually hits home when we have to put out more than words: Sometimes we have to put out cash.

This was the case last April when I arranged for a photo shoot that involved several factors. I needed a location, a model, a Colonial American costume, a makeup artist, and, most importantly, a photographer. And I needed to accomplish all this on a shoestring budget.

This is where that creativity can come into play and help an author take “the path less traveled” in order to make it successful.

I must add here that this photo was not required by my publisher. I chose to come up with this venue to illustrate an idea for my book cover. As usual, I took the idea and ran with it. Thankfully, my husband was on board with the elaborate dream.

So, for a photo shoot, when we think of “model,” most of us assume professional. On a shoestring budget, that is not happening. After searching various venues to find just the right young lady for my proposed book cover, I was blessed with seeing a photograph of my future model on a Facebook friend’s post. I knew she was the right one when I saw her image. But if you don’t have an unprofessional model in mind, I would approach either a high school drama coach or community theater group to try to find the person with the right “look” for your cover.

If you need a costume, that can get tricky, but again, a local drama department might have resources to refer you to a seamstress. Always check around and spread the word; your friends can be the best connections to resources. Be aware that this requires paying for the material for the outfit, as well as paying the seamstress. You may be able to get a good bargain, but everyone that you hire for any part of this photo should be compensated in some way.

 

Since my photo shoot required disrupting the owners of a Colonial American house for a couple of hours, I made sure that I paid them a small fee for their time and trouble. I also brought the food and bottles of water so the homeowners did not have to provide us with anything extra. I chose the food carefully—simple sandwiches and a plate of cut fruit—because it was easy to clean up and provided healthy nourishment for a tired group. Photo shoots take energy!

I knew the photographer was going to be my biggest expense and here is where you must choose a professional. If a photo is going to be used on a book cover, the high-resolution image must be perfect and the lighting just so. Uncle Harry may be asked to photograph a family wedding now and then but, unless he is actually a professional, just smile and graciously decline his offer. While professional photographers are expensive, especially if they have to travel to a location, they are the only ones to hire.

It so happened that my photographer was a friend from church—but she was definitely professional. I viewed some of her images online and was satisfied that she could do the job. She was not only capable but this photo shoot was something new for her resume and she gladly accepted the assignment for the opportunity to add to her credentials. She was so excited to be a part of this photo session that she agreed to a fee that I’m certain was a reduced one.

The last person I needed to hire was a makeup gal. I had no idea there was an entire sub-culture of makeup artists who charge fees to do professional makeup jobs either in your home or theirs. Our artist was delightful and knew just how to apply the right amount of makeup so my model looked natural, without worry of the lights washing out her skin tones.

Every one of these aforementioned participants required a payment. Obviously, the amount can be negotiable but you must pay them a fee that makes their time worthwhile. Once a fee is agreed upon, be sure to include that in the contracts that you and the participants sign.

Now we have segued into an extremely important aspect of this photo shoot: Release forms and contracts. These are the documents that will hopefully protect you from running into any legal trouble that might result from the photo session.

First of all, the homeowner needs to sign a form stating that you have been permitted to use their home for the purpose of a book cover. You need to keep the homeowner’s name and location confidential. I cannot stress that enough!

You also need to state on the release that you are liable for any damages to their home that might occur from the photo session. Be sure to add that you hold all rights to the photos taken in their home.

You can download photo release forms and each one needs to be tailored to the specific individual.

You should also download some kind of copyright agreement with the photographer and model to make certain that your ownership of the photos from the shoot is yours. You do not want someone seeking royalties from an image. It must belong to you.

If the model is a minor, the photo release form must be signed by the parent or guardian.

Each release form or copyright agreement form should include two signatures (yours and the individual person making the agreement), along with complete addresses of both parties.

And of course, always include the date.

I hope this series on creating the photo for my book cover has been beneficial in some way to other authors. This photo session took some money, a lot of organization, creative thinking and mostly, a Divine hand that seemed to guide me each and every step of the way. I am still in awe of God’s blessing on the project. And I am delighted with His handiwork. 🙂

 

 

 

 

 

Laughing At The Cemetery?

September 1, 2013 by emcoop 18 Comments

I know the following story will sound completely fictitious as though it were written for a sitcom. And since I am a writer of fiction, I would understand your skepticism. And if I had not been there, I might have questioned its veracity as well.

But as an eyewitness, I am here to declare: If you were to ask me to swear in a court of law on a Bible whether or not this story is true, I will say “Aye”—in between bouts of laughter. [Read more…] about Laughing At The Cemetery?

Every Day is a Gift

August 29, 2013 by emcoop 4 Comments

We buried my Mom yesterday. She was 99 years old.

Up until the last year of her life, her main difficulties were physical ones. But the last twelve months had seen an increase in loss of memory and comprehension—a tough battle for a lady as mentally sharp as Mom. Even when you’re nearing the century mark, no one wants to lose pieces of their life that become fragmented in the fog of growing dementia. That was her toughest struggle of all.

During the winter months of her battle, I was signing books at a Christian bookstore a distance away. During one of my breaks, I sauntered around the selection of gifts when my eyes were drawn toward a small ceramic bird. I focused on the inscription, which read, “Every Day is a gift from God.”

I picked up the precious reminder and brought it to the cash register. This was a gift worth purchasing for Mom.

 

Mom and I on Valentine's Day
Mom and I on Valentine’s Day

When I presented it to her on Valentine’s Day, her face lit up. “Thank you for the reminder,” she said with eyes that revealed so much. It’s difficult to consider the hours spent in discomfort, loneliness, and confusion as a gift. Yet even the moments of pain can become a blessing as our compassion for others in need is nurtured and our appreciation for heaven is heightened. These are the gifts of glorifying God that—while we do not understand the whole picture on this side of heaven—require our trust as our faith in Him is strengthened.

I often think of my crossstitch needlework when pondering life’s woes. While on the front is a beautifully wrought design, the underside is pocked with strands of tattered thread that look unattractive and frayed. God’s view is the finished piece of artwork while all we can see on this side of heaven is the battered and broken underside.

Yet God is creating His masterpiece.

After Mom’s funeral yesterday, I saw one of my mom’s dear friends—a precious lady with a keen mind and a crippled body from polio that she had years ago. My mom loved her and she cherished Mom in return. I had picked up Mom’s ceramic bird after she passed away and placed the gift in my purse. It was still nestled in my pocket book so I reached in and wrapped my fingers around the precious reminder that had ministered to my mom.

“Here, Carol.” I placed the bird in her hands. “I think my Mom would have wanted you to have this.”

Her eyes melted in appreciation. “Thank you.”

“Thank you for being her friend,” I said, my own eyes welling.

The gift of a friend—one of God’s many comforts as we face the trials of each day. As we each draw closer to Him, and our own eternity.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Life and Death

August 25, 2013 by emcoop 17 Comments

I’m sitting at my mother’s bedside and she is dying.

It is not an unexpected event since she is 99. But the sheer rapidity of the onset of pneumonia took us all by surprise. She was playing a game with my sister last Saturday. On Sunday she was reading the library books I had picked up for her and anticipating her grandson’s visit this week. By Tuesday, she was short of breath and feverish. By the next Saturday—today—she is unresponsive and near the end. [Read more…] about Life and Death

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