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The Book I Balked At Writing

February 10, 2015 by emcoop Leave a Comment

I’ll never forget the day a friend stopped me at church. She knew I’d written a book but, instead of the one she expected, I’d written a historical fiction. “I thought you’d write a book about your daughter,” she said to me.

I looked at her in shock. “Are you kidding me? Relive the nightmare of her brain tumor? No way.”

I wouldn’t even entertain the idea of such a project. It would be too difficult to relive her journey through cancer and eventual passing.

How could someone even mention that, I thought? [Read more…] about The Book I Balked At Writing

Vaccines and Cancer

February 3, 2015 by emcoop 4 Comments

When you read the title of this blog, you may have wondered if I was going to suggest that vaccinations cause cancer. That could not be further from the truth.

What I am suggesting is that, with the thousands of cancer patients who have suppressed immune systems (i.e. they can catch any illness that is within breathing distance), folks who choose NOT to vaccinate their children should keep them FAR AWAY from folks with cancer.

In the United States, we are currently undergoing a measles outbreak. It seems so foreign to many, since measles vaccine has been around for decades. Much publicity has been dedicated to the deleterious side effects of vaccines. In fact, there can be bad side effects to immunizations. Are the bad side effects common? No. Do vaccines usually prevent the very illness they are intended to immunize against? Yes.

Many years ago there was a terrible plague called polio. Throughout history, there were instances noted of polio-like illnesses and by 1910, frequent epidemics spread throughout the world. But the worst epidemic peaked in the 1940’s and 1950’s. The disease paralyzed or killed over half a million people worldwide every year.

My older sister was a victim of polio. She did not die, but has lifelong side effects that still impact her health.

In the 1950’s a miracle seemed to occur in medicine with the development of one, then a second more effective, vaccine to battle the polio virus. By 1961, only 161 cases were reported in the United States.

Now we are seeing the rise of another illness that has been previously under tight control with the use of a vaccine. The disease is called measles.

In 2004, there were only 37 cases of measles in this country. Compare that with 644 cases in 2014, and it is cause for concern. In the first 31 days of 2015, 102 people have already been diagnosed with the illness. Statistics are available on the CDC website.

Most of these cases are in children and adults who are either unimmunized for measles or underimmunized, meaning they’ve only had one shot. It takes two injections to provide adequate immunity.

Measles is highly contagious and seems to be spreading. Symptoms are a rash and fever. Victims can be contagious for four days before a rash develops. Measles can also cause pneumonia, brain damage, deafness and death.

The story of my daughter's journey with cancer.
The story of my daughter’s journey with cancer.

So where is the connection with cancer (a topic of interest to me since my own daughter died of that disease)? Imagine a child exposed to measles and possibly carrying the disease, being around someone on chemotherapy or undergoing radiation, whose ability to fight any illness is severely compromised. The thought sends a feeling of dread through me.

In this country, we are free to decide whether or not we immunize our children. But that choice can have deadly consequences for ourselves and others—something to think about when getting the real facts about vaccinations for children. Please be informed.

Sometimes studying history can tell us just how bad epidemics can be.

“Those who don’t know history are doomed to repeat it.” Edmund Burke

 

 

The Joy of the Season

December 11, 2014 by emcoop 7 Comments

Our best Christmas present in 1978 was our daughter, Bethany. She was only 7 pounds, 11 ounces, but our sweet newborn filled our home that year with immeasurable joy.

There was little else to celebrate that winter. Times were tough in the Cooper household and our personal economy had sunk deeper than the snowdrifts outside our door. Because of scarce resources, we had little in the way of gifts. But where the coins were limited, the creativity was limitless as our little tree took on festive yet simple decorations.

My mom visited and crocheted an ornament with the date spelled out in yarn. My husband, Steve, spent hours crafting a wooden truck for our two-year-old son.  My creative spouse spent more hours designing a wooden ornament that I still treasure to this day.  It was a memorable year in so many ways, with treasures abounding that money could not buy.

As I look back on that Christmas 36 years ago, I don’t regret the paucity of money nor the struggles we endured that taught us to be more compassionate Christians. What I do regret is that our sweet Bethany is no longer with us.

Bethanys Calendar Cover

Her life was a testimony of living life well, even when the years are few. In her twenty-four years, her life seemed to impact so many others who still can recall her smile, her laugh, her intelligence, and her compassion. Mostly, her legacy is one of faith fulfilled in living a Christian life that made a positive difference in the lives of others.

It was a life of joy despite circumstances that seemed to whisk her away to heaven far sooner than any of us wanted.  The joy in remembering Bethany reminds me that joy is not about the ever-changing circumstances that make us happy or sad. It is the realization that there is a promise for life eternal with God’s Son, whose birth we celebrate each Christmas.

That is truly the Joy of the season.

Out of the most severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity. 2 Corinthians 8:2 NIV 

 

Bethany’s Calendar

October 20, 2014 by emcoop 4 Comments

Our lives changed forever eleven years ago today when my daughter’s “calendar” on earth ended. But her life in heaven had just began.

She was only 24 and my family never imagined that our bright, funny and faith-filled daughter would have such a short stay with us. But sometimes cancer interferes with our hopes and dreams. And sometimes, God has other plans.

My family has  been through so much in the ensuing years, yet we continue to be amazed at the life she shared with us, as well as the impact she had on so many others. We will always treasure her in our hearts, and look forward to seeing her again in eternity.

The most amazing thing about this eleventh year has been writing Bethany’s Calendar, the story of her final days on earth as she suffered from brain cancer. The fact that I had the strength to write it at all attests to the power of intercessory prayer as others raised me up in this difficult writing task. Although it was emotionally exhausting, the words and the story flowed.

Now Bethany’s Calendar is on the verge of being released in a few weeks. I am amazed at the smooth transition from writing first draft to now anticipating holding the final copy of the book. I can’t wait to share it with others and PRAY that it helps patients and their families who are in similar circumstances.

Bethanys Calendar Cover

I’ll be honest. Going through final edits this past weekend brought more than one tear. There is no loss like saying goodbye to your child.

Yet I am not bitter, nor do I repeat the often spoken phrase, “No parent should have to bury their child.” While that may be the human perspective, God’s perspective about life is that He is God, and He decides when our work on this earth is complete. Sometimes that is as soon as a child is birthed or it may be in old age. But “The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; may the name of the Lord be praised.” Job 1:21 NIV

Here are some of the words from “God is God” by Steven Curtis Chapman. This song played on my car radio—seemingly every time I went driving during Bethany’s illness. The verses are a reminder to me that God is the creator, with his purposes for His creation:

 

God is God and I am not

I can only see a part of the picture He’s painting

God is God and I am man

So I’ll never understand it all

For only God is God.

 

Launch for Bethany’s Calendar is December 12, 2014. It would have been her 36th birthday.

 

 

 

 

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